All the best transformations are accompanied by pain.
Seek a partner that will not disregard your growth
but will travel the path with you.
For a marriage to be successful
both partners must seek the same horizon.
Successful marriages are not made of carbon copies (Google it)
but of a melding of strengths.
Couples should be clear on ultimate goals.
Not holding secret hopes of change.
Don't sabotage your partner with lofty unobtainable