I started reading mind body connection books. Once I felt
stable and left the marriage I abandoned the books I was reading.
Today, I started reading When the Body Says No
exploring the stress-disease connection by Gabor Mate, M.D.
A best selling author in Canada but not here.
Many of us live, if not alone, then in emotionally inadequate relationships
that do not recognize, or honour our deepest needs. Isolation and stress
affect many who may believe their lives are quite satisfactory.
- Gabor Mate, M.D.
Life is not easy. Pick a praying man.
Ask your suitor. Do you pray?
If his answer is,
"I am not religious but I appreciate (or love) that you are."
RUN the way. You need a partner in all you do.
Gone should be the days when only the wife or mother
attends the places of worship.
In truth I am not religious in the conventional bible thumper way.
In the way people use religion to support their anger and hate.
In the way religion is used to segregate. The way some priests
used their position of authority to abuse children or support slavery.
I do have a personal relationship with Christ.
Maybe that is why it is so easy for me
to vocalize things of the spirit.
I enjoy sincerely enjoy symbols of organized religion.
A Bible is a constant.
Do I wish I attended church more often, yes.
Do I enjoy fellowship, yes.
Do I have friends from all faiths, yes.
Good people can be found as believers and nonbelievers.
In selecting a partner, I still insist a shared faith is easier.
The more things in common the better for the longevity of marriage.
Be equally yoked. The scripture below
was not about marriage but it is useful here.
Great visual of the two oxen yoked together.
2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers:
for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness?
and what communion hath light with darkness?
If attending church, praying in crisis, or
raising children in a a faith.
Eating vegetarian, voting for the Dems or GOP matters.
Pick a like minded mate.
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Mr. Lee from the beginning told me he was a praying man.
He had jealous bones.
He was secure in his manhood and heterosexuality.
He was not homophobia. In my opinion, men that are are scary.
He had been raised by a strong mother who worked outside of the home.
He would support my perpetual student tendencies.
Most importantly, he understood children come first.
The bonus was he enjoyed reading, magazines,
thrifting, art, music, old movies,
and the hunt for vintage
Oh yes, Joe would want me to tell you, Mr. Lee could
move a big couch.
And agreed we would care for my mother if the opportunity
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