to sermons from one of my favorite pastors.....Steve Mays
or listening to my favorite radio
programs Splendid Table or Pacifica Radio.
Driving home yesterday I caught a program
about what to do if you spouse says, "I don't love you
anymore." A book by the same title provides an interesting
and useful Christian perspective.
David Clarke, PhD is the author, he advises
the hurt spouse to get angry to keep
from getting stuck and jump start the healing process.
In Dr. Clarke's practice, he has found that in most cases
when a spouse declares the lack of love it is because
they are already in deep sin. An affair, pornography
or other addiction.
Seek a man who loves and respects women.
Avoid character flaws.
Don't make excuses.
JoAnn from Bensonhurst gives great practical advice.
Married for 34 years she knows what it takes
to keep it together.
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